In an era of deep polarization, civil conversations equip students with essential communication and problem-solving skills. Through guided dialogue, they master active listening, respectful disagreement, perspective-taking, and collaborative problem-solving—abilities that serve them personally and professionally.

These intentionally designed conversations transcend ordinary interactions by creating brave spaces where challenging topics can be explored with both authenticity and respect. Unlike casual conversations that avoid controversy or classroom discussions bound by academic hierarchy, civil conversations transform differences into opportunities for growth rather than barriers to understanding.

The idea is to have spaces where we move beyond toxic polarization into real conversations. Spaces that allow students to ask questions, to think about possible solutions, to wrestle with complicated issues. In short, to be students.

– Dr. Anita Gustafson, President of Presbyterian College

The Core Principles of Civil Dialogue

Civil conversations thrive on these essential elements that create the foundation for meaningful dialogue across differences:

• Trust: Participants need to feel their words won’t be twisted or used against them
• Deep Listening: The emphasis is as much on how we listen as on how we speak
• Humility: Recognizes that no one has all the answers
• Bravery: Requires courage to express authentic views while remaining respectful
• Discipline: Maintains consideration for others even when discussing difficult topics
• Reduced Distractions: Often starting with silence and stowing phones to facilitate genuine connection

Maybe the key difference between ‘civil conversations’ and other forms of discourse isn’t about the words we speak, but the quality of our listening. To do civil conversation well requires discipline, compassion and humility on all sides.

– Dr. Kirk Nolan, Professor of Religion

Our Commitment to Civil Dialogue at PC

At Presbyterian College, we’re cultivating a community where meaningful dialogue thrives. Through the Civil Conversations Initiative, we prepare students to engage thoughtfully with diverse perspectives, navigate complex issues with both conviction and compassion, and develop the communication skills needed to bridge divides rather than deepen them—ultimately graduating thoughtful citizens ready to lead positive change in our increasingly polarized world.

Three Pillars

The Civil Conversations Initiative at PC is built upon three foundational elements that guide our students toward meaningful dialogue:

• Cultivate Respectful Engagement. Master the art of civil discourse through intentional conduct that honors every voice in the room.
• Embrace Diverse Perspectives. Develop the confidence to navigate conflicting viewpoints with curiosity and critical thinking, turning disagreement into opportunity.
• Bridge Differences with Skill. Build powerful communication techniques that connect effectively across diverse backgrounds, preparing you for leadership in our complex world.

Civil Conversations Event Highlights

The Civil Conversations Initiative has hosted several dynamic events that sparked meaningful dialogue across our campus community:

• Election Forum Series – Our faculty-student panels created space for authentic discussions about electoral politics, economic concerns, and America’s future. Students left empowered to vote and engage politically with confidence!
• Middle East Dialogue – When international conflict sparked tensions nationwide, our community came together to explore multiple perspectives on the Israeli-Hamas situation with respect and nuance.
• Etiquette & Ethics Dinner – This unique event paired formal dining experience with facilitated discussions on today’s controversial topics, teaching students to navigate both social graces and challenging conversations.

Each event provides not just a platform for dialogue, but a transformative experience where students develop real-world skills for engaging across differences. Join us for our next conversation – where your voice matters and your perspective contributes to our collective growth!