Civil Conversations

The Power of Civil Discourse

In an era of deep polarization, Civil Conversations equip students with essential communication and problem-solving skills. Through guided dialogue, they master active listening, respectful disagreement, perspective-taking, and collaborative problem-solving—abilities that serve them personally and professionally.

These intentionally designed conversations transcend ordinary interactions by creating brave spaces where challenging topics can be explored with both authenticity and respect. Unlike casual conversations that avoid controversy or classroom discussions bound by academic hierarchy, Civil Conversations transform differences into opportunities for growth rather than barriers to understanding.

The idea is to have spaces where we move beyond toxic polarization into real conversations. Spaces that allow students to ask questions, to think about possible solutions, to wrestle with complicated issues. In short, to be students.
– Dr. Anita Gustafson, President of Presbyterian College

The Three Pillars

The Civil Conversations Initiative at PC is built upon three foundational elements that guide our students toward meaningful dialogue:

Cultivate Respectful Engagement

Master the art of civil discourse through intentional conduct that honors every voice in the room.

Embrace Diverse Perspectives

Develop the confidence to navigate conflicting viewpoints with curiosity and critical thinking, turning disagreement into opportunity.

Bridge Differences with Skill

Build powerful communication techniques that connect effectively across diverse backgrounds, preparing you for leadership in our complex world.

The Core Principles of Civil Dialogue

Civil conversations thrive on these essential elements that create the foundation for meaningful dialogue across differences:

Trust

Participants need to feel their words won’t be twisted or used against them

Deep Listening

The emphasis is as much on how we listen as on how we speak

Humility

Recognizes that no one has all the answers

Bravery

Requires courage to express authentic views while remaining respectful

Discipline

Maintains consideration for others even when discussing difficult topics

Reduced Distractions

Often starting with silence and stowing phones to facilitate genuine connection

Our Commitment to Civil Dialogue at PC

At Presbyterian College, we’re cultivating a community where meaningful dialogue thrives. Through the Civil Conversations Initiative, we prepare students to engage thoughtfully with diverse perspectives, navigate complex issues with both conviction and compassion, and develop the communication skills needed to bridge divides rather than deepen them—ultimately graduating thoughtful citizens ready to lead positive change in our increasingly polarized world.

Maybe the key difference between ‘civil conversations’ and other forms of discourse isn’t about the words we speak, but the quality of our listening. To do civil conversation well requires discipline, compassion and humility on all sides.
– Dr. Kirk Nolan, Professor of Religion